Is it consider positive if you share your clearly suffering, but happy life?
Check out this stressful sitting mat my wife got from a un-name shopping mall. I cannot tell you where it is made or risk being call racist, spreading negative thought. 2 pouches stuff with bean at the side, and a hole at the bottom for unspoken intent. Very thoughtful design.
Btw, you can safely talk about your misery as long as it doesn't sound depressing.